I had a chance to talk with her last night about my concerns for her at college. I hope you will share some of these things with your new college student, if you have one.
I told her that I knew she was going to drink alcohol in college because that is what happens at college. I wasn't giving her my approval, just facing reality. I warned her of the pitfalls (first don't get caught underage), such as how alcohol can sneak up on you, don't drink and drive, etc. But the most important, I think, that my dad shared with me before I left for the Army, was never ever leave your drink unattended. You never know what may be dropped into it and that is when you hear about a date-rape or some young person dying from some chemical.
I also made sure she kept in mind to never travel alone, especially at night. Always walk with someone. She took a moment to remind me that she IS afraid of the dark and would, therefore, never walk across campus in the dark alone.
The most important point I made to her is that she should have fun at college and experience the things around her. Don't forget her purpose, but have fun. I know she will be successful in whatever she does. I just worry about my little girl like all dads do.
So, send your kid off to college with a hug, maybe a tear or two. Keep them in your prayers and let them know they can always call you for advice...just don't expect them to always follow it.
